Module 2 - If I leave, what do I need to think about?

The Reflection Journal — Module 2: If I Leave, What Do I Need to Think About?

Planning quietly, one practical question at a time

Once you’ve realised something is wrong, the next question can feel enormous: what would I actually do? Where would I go? What would I take? Who can I tell?

You don’t need the whole plan today. You need to know which practical things matter, so that if your window ever opens, or suddenly shrinks to an hour, you don’t freeze.

Module 2 takes you through the practical side of leaving, step by step, without telling you when or whether to go. It’s written by a survivor who did it carload by carload, and who learned what she wished she’d known first.

What’s inside

• Could your planning be discovered? Location sharing, shared accounts, and why switching everything off at once can backfire.
• Your phone: whose plan it’s on, what’s quietly backing up, and the numbers to keep on paper.
• Who needs to know, and who doesn’t: keeping your circle small, plus a simple code word with one trusted person.
• Your first safe place: why the person you trust most isn’t always the safest place to stay, and what has to work on the first night.
• The one-hour version: what to take first if time runs short, and how to move things out gradually if it doesn’t.
• Telling the children: simple words for different ages.
• The traces you leave behind: post, routines and appointment reminders that can give you away.
• If your visa depends on your partner: why a threat of deportation may not be true.
• The first 72 hours: what needs doing now, what comes next, and what can wait.
• Free, confidential helplines for the UK, US and Australia, and how to find yours elsewhere.

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