Trust Talk Tool Kit

The questions chase you through every hour—Am I safe here? What’s real? You wake up in the dark, your heart pounding, mind looping, searching for answers you never wanted to need. You hold your pain in check at church, in the kitchen, in front of the kids. But deep down, you’re tired of feeling like you have to keep the peace when your world has split in two.

People toss you quick fixes—“Just forgive.” “Move forward.” Most don’t want to face the grit of what it takes to build trust after betrayal. They give you hope like it’s candy, but hope isn’t enough when you’re the one bleeding.

You need tools that get it. Tools that hold the truth up to the light, make space for your anger, and honor your need for answers. The Trust Talk Tool Kit gives you real framework for the conversations that keep you up at night. These are grounded, biblically anchored prompts and questions—born from the trenches of real marriage wreckage—that help you speak the truth, hold the line, and stand on your own two feet when it counts. Every piece is built on years of walking with women through the fires of betrayal trauma. You get honesty, grit, and gospel-rooted care that knows how deep this wound goes.

This kit won’t heal trust overnight. But it will help you name what’s true, speak what needs to be said, and take one honest step at a time—so you don’t lose yourself in the mess. Small, steady, specific. Just the next right word, and a way to say it when nothing else feels safe.