Confessions of a Byeontae (English)

Think Sex and the City—but an Asian MILF with no friends.

We Asians make closet-keeping an art form.

Age is but a number. In Korea, it was everything.

One of the first things a Korean will ask you is myeoch sal-ieyo (몇 살이에요)—

How old are you?

So how old am I?

Smart enough not to tell you.

And that hot, young Korean guy said it—Ajumma (아줌마)—a word loaded with judgment. Old. Married. Mom. A has-been. He laughed and pointed from a bedroom somewhere in Seoul.

He didn’t know me. No one did.

Confessions of a Byeontae is a raw, unapologetic exploration of desire, age gaps, cultural judgment, and female sexuality—equal parts self-love, recklessness, and who f*cking cares.

Told through real-life encounters, endless dating-app chats, and the spilled secrets people don’t even tell their closest friends.

Judgment stays at the door.

Like shoes.

Because age is only a number.

Some moms were never meant to stay in a bubble.

Some of us were meant to fly free.