The You That Is Me That Is We

There is a saying that you cannot see something in another that does not exist within yourself.

It’s meant to be a compliment. You cannot recognize the good in others that does not reside within you as well.

The opposite is also true.

Any characteristic, habit or personality trait that you find objectionable in another person is merely a reflection of what exists within you.

“Bull," you say?

Okay.

So if that’s your truth, you may want to put this down now.

However, if you “get it” or you are mildly curious (skeptics are welcome) and are open to finding out how this applies, you are in the right place.

This little book is designed to be a mirror. The reflection that is looking back at you is you, The Observer.

If you’re happy and you know it, pass this by.

If you find yourself frustrated because others

just don’t conform to how you think they should be,

you might want to stick around.

This is about learning about ourselves through others.

Expect some surprises. If you sincerely give it your best,

you might find some insights resulting in a happier life.

Happy Discovery. You are worth it!

Deborah, “Deb” Adler