The Repair Protocol

You can love someone and still be building on completely different blueprints. The Repair Protocol starts with the five conflict patterns so you can name yours before it costs you another relationship.

Identify whether you Pursue-Withdraw, Attack-Defend, Shutdown-Shutdown, Escalate-Escalate, or Blame-Blame. Then interrupt the pattern before it damages what you’re building. From there, a 14-section Alignment Guide walks through everything — money, kids, future plans, values, how you’d handle a breakup — organized by how serious things are getting.

Includes a full Relationship Agreement template and quarterly maintenance check-ins, so this isn’t a one-time read. It’s the system you keep coming back to.

Who it’s for: Anyone tired of having the same fight with different people. Anyone getting serious with someone and wanting to know you’re building the same future.