The Green Light Method: Stop being invisible to the men you want

Most women are waiting to be chosen. That's the problem.

You've been taught that the right man will simply find you — that if you just exist beautifully enough, he'll appear.

But here's what nobody tells you:

The men approaching women cold in public are playing a numbers game.

They are not hunting for you specifically.

They are hunting (for weak prey to devour).

Full stop.

And that distinction matters more than you think.

The women who actually win at this?

They stopped being passive participants in their own love lives.

You are the only person who is responsible for your life, and you are not on earth to live some sad, disastrous life,

You are here to have fun, be happy, to love, and be loved!

And it's time you hop into the driver's seat to take back control of your dating life!

No, it doesn't mean you are chasing men, in fact, you are choosing men!

What we are covering in this class:

• Why the approach culture is broken - and why the man who walks up to every woman in the room is not a green flag just because he has confidence.
• Why you are the chooser - Biology, psychology, and every piece of real data agrees: women select. It's time your behaviour caught up with that truth.
• The little-known places to meet plenty of high value men: think outside of the box! Stop doing the same thing that every woman and their mothers are doing. My recommendations are going to shock you and at the same time point you to the right direction.
• How to look genuinely approachable - Not desperate. Not performative. The specific signals: body language, positioning, eye contact, that tell the right man he has permission.
• How to strategically approach men you want - Yes, you can make the first move. No, it doesn't make you seem desperate, it doesn't mean chasing men, and I'll show you exactly how it's done correctly and effortlessly.
• The Drop the Handkerchief Method - The elegant, time-tested art of making a man think he approached you. Because sometimes, the smoothest move is invisible.

By the end of this class, you won't be waiting to be seen. You'll be deciding who gets your green light.😉🚦

Date: Friday 10th July 2026

Time: 5pm BST/12pm EDT

As always, it's highly recommended to attend live, but in case you can't make it, the class will be recorded and sent to you afterwards.

I can't wait to see you in class!

Xoxo Professor Abi