The Other Side Group/Facilitator License

This Resource Guide is sold on a sliding scale to support wider access for diverse financial means. The suggested price is $30 to $50. My licenses are based on trust and mutual aid, not DRM or surveillance. If you're an individual with means, please pay what you can—it helps me get these resources to men in prison and grassroots groups with no budget. If you're an organization with a budget, please purchase the appropriate license so I can sustain this work.

If you can't pay, reach out. I'll make sure you get what you need.

We don't believe in locking liberation behind a paywall. We do believe in asking those who can pay to support those who can't. If you are an independent facilitator, I offer a full rebate if you (1) facilitate two sessions with my material and (2) contact me at reframe@reframeconsults.com to fill out a feedback form.

Your purchase includes:

This license covers one small group (less than 30 people) or independent facilitator and includes:

📄 Digital Facilitator Guide (PDF) – print as many copies as you need for your team

📓 Digital Study Companion (PDF) – print unlimited participant workbooks for your group members

• 🖨️ Unlimited internal printing for one year

✅ YOU HAVE PERMISSION TO:

• Print unlimited copies for participants within your single organization or group
• Distribute printed copies to facilitators and participants in your programs
• Post the PDF to a private, password-protected learning platform for your enrolled participants
• Use the materials for as many sessions as you need, for one year from purchase date

❌ YOU DO NOT HAVE PERMISSION TO:

• Sell, resell, or distribute the PDF or printed copies outside your organization
• Post the PDF to any public website, forum, or file-sharing platform
• Share your login or download link with individuals outside your organization
• Use the materials for consulting or paid facilitation services without an Institutional License

Content Summary

I wrote the essay at the center of this resource guide in my 40s,

on the other side of a life sentence in prison, a father's betrayal, and my own long performance of a man that I never

wanted to be.

I wrote it because I needed to understand how men so full

of life-giving love—my father, myself, the men I grew up

with—could become agents of a system that demeans,

dominates, and kills.

I wrote it because rejection alone is a void. I wanted to

cultivate healing seeds on the other side.

This resource package is that cultivation.

The Facilitator's Guide is for leading a single, powerful

conversation. The Study Companion is for walking together

through four weeks of tending and practice. They are

designed to be used separately or in sequence, by one man

or by a hundred.

You do not need to be a therapist, a scholar, or a seasoned

facilitator to use these materials. You only need to identify as a man

who is ready to stop paying into the con and start living

the real thing.

Contact: reframe@reframeconsults.com