Errors in My Dating Life

Errors in My Dating Life is a raw, redemptive guide for anyone tired of emotional limbo and ready to pursue love with clarity, courage, and conviction. In this deeply personal and spiritually grounded book, Zadock Ashubwe unpacks the silent delays, confusing signals, and relational missteps that sabotage modern dating—especially for those navigating love in their 30s and beyond.

Through poetic confessions and practical wisdom, Zadock explores:

• The danger of “mark timing”—emotional intimacy without commitment
• Why rejection is not failure, but sacred information for healing and identity
• The myth of perfect readiness and how to choose love in progress
• The 90-Day Rule for defining relationships with courage and clarity
• How silence, avoidance, and emotional drift reveal truths we’re afraid to face
• The cost of lacking purpose—and how it affects who we attract and how we love
• How self-sabotage blocks intimacy, and the courage it takes to receive love fully
• Why comparison kills connection, and how to pursue with purpose

Whether you’ve been overly available but undefined, stuck in the friendship trap, afraid to make your intentions known, or healing from a trail of “almosts,” this book will help you shift from passive companionship to intentional connection.

Be present. Be clear. Be decisive.