Fade Out Technique Support Guide

Fade Out Technique Support Guide + Squiggy Stories

Struggling with a child who will only poo in a nappy or pull-up? This clear, step-by-step digital resource helps children transition to using the toilet calmly and confidently, without pressure. Created by Dr Kate McGarry, Developmental Psychologist specialising in stool withholding and toileting difficulties, this guide combines research-informed strategies with practical, real-world support.

Who this resource is for

Suitable for children aged 2–7 years. Designed for parents, carers, and professionals supporting children who prefer to poo in a nappy or pull-up or are already toilet trained for wees but resist pooing in the toilet. Ideal for those looking for a gentle, gradual approach.

What makes this approach different

This resource uses a gradual evidence-based “fade out technique” rather than sudden nappy removal, helping reduce resistance, build confidence, and support long-term toileting success.

What is included

A structured three-stage system:

Stage One focuses on preparation and building comfort in the bathroom.

Stage Two supports sitting on the toilet while wearing a nappy.

Stage Three guides the gradual transition away from the nappy.

Includes practical strategies such as backward chaining, encouraging squatting, using motivating tools like “magic poo dust,” and managing common challenges.

Includes three Squiggy stories

Three engaging printable stories are included to support children through each stage of the process and make the transition more understandable and motivating.

Why parents and professionals choose this resource

Developed by a specialist, grounded in psychological principles, and designed to be practical and easy to follow. Suitable for use at home with a gentle, child-centered approach. This resource provides a clear, supportive pathway to help children move towards confident, independent toilet use.