If you’re reading this, you’re probably tired. The kind of tired that sleep can’t fix. It’s the soul-deep exhaustion of pouring your love into a cup with a hole in the bottom. You’re giving, fussing, praying, and hoping, while receiving silence, confusion, and just enough breadcrumbs to keep you stuck.
Baby, I was there. For 3.5 years.
I know the unique pain of being deliberately ignored—the sting of seeing your calls go unanswered while he micromanages your texts, listening to your voice messages but offering no response. I know the special kind of madness that comes from watching him stay active and engaged with everyone on social media… while you sit in the silence he created for you.
It’s not just neglect; it’s a specific, calculated form of mistreatment designed to make you feel small and powerless.
But here is the truth I had to learn the hard way: The universe, your Spirit, and your Ancestors are never conspiring to keep you in a cage. They are waiting for you to choose your own freedom.
For months, I fussed. I tried to talk, to reason, to beg for the basic decency of communication. Nothing changed. So, I finally turned to the one conversation that always gives me clarity: I sat down with my tarot cards.
The cards I laid out told a story I knew in my bones but was afraid to admit. It spoke of his emotional unavailability (Ace of Cups Reversed), the broken partnership (Two of Cups Reversed), and his impulsive, regretful energy (Knight of Wands Reversed). But the card that screamed the loudest was the Page of Swords—the card of bold truth. It was time to speak my final piece.
I didn’t do it alone. I called my spiritual council—my two ride-or-die girlfriends—on video chat. With them as my witnesses, I told him exactly how his behavior was unacceptable in an audio message because he refused to answer my call. I was done whispering my pain; I declared it. His only response? A cold text: “I’m officially letting you go spiritually and physically.”
And my response? “Thank you.”
Then, I got to work. I didn’t cry. I didn’t wallow. I built a sacred fire. I burned every picture, every spellwork I’d ever done for the relationship, and every memory that tied me to that pain. I took the jewelry he gave me, reclaimed its energy, and dedicated it to my own abundance. I performed a cord-cutting in the most literal and spiritual sense.
And the moment I was done? The moment I blocked him? He tried to call.
I had snatched my power back so fast, the energetic shockwave hit him before he even knew what was happening.
He thought his “release” would break me. Instead, it was the key that unlocked my cage.
Your Liberation is Calling
My story isn’t just about a breakup. It’s about a spiritual awakening. It’s about realizing that your peace is non-negotiable. Your Spirit and your Ancestors are rooting for you. They will give you the signs—through tarot, through your dreams, through that gut feeling you can’t ignore—but you have to be the one to take the match and burn the bridges that are burning you.
If you’re in a dead-end situationship, a draining marriage, or a confusing divorce, know this: you do not have to navigate this alone.
I now use my gifts to help others see their situation with the same clarity that set me free.
· Love Readings: Whether you're single, dating, married, or divorced, I can help you navigate the energy of your relationship and find the truth that will set you on your highest path.
· Cord Cutting Rituals: For when you know it’s time to let the bullshit go, but you need the spiritual strength and ceremonial guidance to make it final. We will cut the energetic ties that are draining your power and keeping you stuck.
You are stronger than you think. Your spirit is more powerful than your fear. And your freedom is worth every single match.
If you’re ready to choose yourself, SOUL CARE *Book A Reading*. Let’s walk this path to power together.
Ase.
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