Queens the things that continue in our lives only continue because we haven't made a decision. You can no longer allow someone to make you feel as if you are the problem for standing up for yourself. If setting boundaries and holding true to your boundaries if a problem for them, Than they aren't the one for you,
and guess what that's ok. That means there is something better waiting for you. Make a decision to choose yourselves. You deserve to love and be loved without being traumatized.