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We are hit with every kind of emotion and roadblock possible during the course of everyday life. It is all about how we handle those emotions and roadblocks. How quickly do we shake it off and move on? It can be simple things, like having to stop and buy gas before work because you were too lazy the night before, or as extreme as a death or sickness that was unexpected. The world will not wait for you to catch up, and no amount of wallowing will get you there. The faster we can accept what has already happened and look for a possible solution, the easier it is going to be to move on. We cannot control what happens, but we can always control how we react and what we are going to do afterwards. After all, it is said that you will not be remembered by the amount of money you have or by the things you have collected, but by the life you lived and how you impacted the people around you. There are six sentences that, if you truly believe and live by them, will forever change your world and your mindset. Here you go.
1. Stop Telling People Everything. Most People Don't Care, And Some Secretly Want You To Fail.
Stop Tellig People Everything.
We live in a society where people freely flaunt everything they’re proud of, and there’s nothing wrong with that. You should never feel like you have to hide your happiness. But the issue is this: many people only show the highlights of their lives, and that’s not real. Life isn’t just about the best days, every day can't be the best day. And when the tough days come, you need to be mindful. Not everyone around you is happy for your wins. Some people may secretly envy you or even want you to fail. If the same people are never celebrating your success or always seem indifferent, it’s time to reevaluate who you keep close. People will really try to bury you right before you start to get ahead. If you're doing it right and you're getting to a place that others aren't and their ego can't handle it, they will go out of their way to block anything that tries to get you across that finish line. Keep your plans and your goals to yourself, and if someone does ask, if it's not a mentor, then tell them short and sweet. The only person watching you is yourself. So why do you think you need to broadcast every single thing you are doing?
2. Choose Your Friends Wisely. The Fastest Way To Become Better Is To Surround Yourself With Better People.
Power of association is a very powerful statement. It’s a fact of life that you tend to become like the people you most associate with. Surround yourself with driven and inspiring people. Push each other to achieve and exceed each of your goals. It’s not a complicated thing called magic, just relationships and creating a positive social environment for each of you to thrive. We weren’t meant to handle life alone; we are a species that depends on each and every individual to thrive on the crafts of life and thrive on our creations. If you’re constantly trying to be like the people you’re around most, make sure your surroundings are of those who have made it to a great level in their existence. Then attain that greatness. Be your greatest version of yourself and attempt to draw your last breath each and every day. Don’t cheat yourself of life, and do the best you can every day. We are all created to do incredible things on this earth that we share. There is no reason that we can’t become great or even greater each and every day while we walk through our lives. I wish you the greatness you have inside without letting anyone hold you back.
3. Expect Nothing, Appreciate Everything. Be Grateful For The Little Things In Your Life To Find Inner Peace.
Stop expecting. Start appreciating. It sounds so simple, but sometimes, or even most of the time, this is a hard principle to live by. We live in a generation where we expect so much from others and we expect things to happen instantly. However, many times others don’t or aren’t able to fulfill our expectations, which leads us to disappointment. This is especially the case when we have given so much without expecting anything in return. Expectations kill appreciation. So rather than expecting, switch to appreciating. Start to recognize the things people do for you and the little things that they’ve sacrificed and given up to show that they care or love you. If you expect nothing, you will learn to embrace, cherish, and appreciate everything that comes your way in the most unexpected circumstances. This is a crucial principle that can change your life and bring so much joy to others and yourself.
4. Do Your Best And Trust The Process. The Harder You Work, The Luckier You Will Get.
Life rewards those who work hard. To get what you want, to win the game, or to pass an exam, you need to be dedicated and work hard. Success is a question of hard work and luck. We all know that, but here's an addition to that. The harder you work, the luckier you become. Instead of just waiting for that stroke of luck to happen to you, make it happen. Work on your craft and strive to be the best at what you do. By doing so, you increase the chances of opportunity knocking on your door. When it does, it's not luck but hard work that lets you answer.
Sure, any journey won't be easy. It is particularly hard when you have to wait for your "big break" while you see people achieve success every day. Meanwhile, you just keep on grinding and see nothing happen. Each day you feel like you've accomplished nothing. If you're going through that right now, my heart goes out to you. But in all honesty, every effort you put in today, be it big or small, is putting you in place for that lucky break to come. As someone who's been through numerous setbacks but still achieves even just a little of his dream every single day, I can tell you, no matter how small your effort is, it's still an effort. Be proud of that and never stop working. In the long run, you will get lucky at some point. You will get what you want. All it takes is hard work and patience. Trust in yourself and the process. It will take you far.
5. Control Yourself, Not Others. Controlling Others Is Strength. Controlling Yourself Is True Power.
Stop trying to control everything and just let go! Let go, trust, let things happen the way they are supposed to. Oftentimes, the reason people are so stressed out is that they are constantly trying to control the outcome of a situation. If it doesn't go exactly how they want, they become angry and obsessed about what they can do to get it to go their way. The feeling of having control keeps them from feeling vulnerable. Take a step back, breathe, and let things happen as they are supposed to!
The only person in this world who you can control is yourself. That's it. You can't control the actions of others, you can't control the events of the world. You can only control how you perceive and how you respond to those actions and events. Understanding this takes away the focus from what others are doing and refocuses it on what you can be doing!
6. Learn To React Less. When You Control Your Reaction, Nobody Can Manipulate You.
Practicing the art of responding instead of reacting will not only build unconditional self-control but also build confidence in life's harsh situations. If you have the mental strength to not react to anything that is intended to drain your energy, ultimately it is the victory of your mind. In discussion, the first to react is the weakness and reflects the absence of self-confidence and stress. If somebody is reacting to your actions, it means you have done something that is mentally torturing them. When a person completely identifies their self with their actions and understands that they have no power to do anything except their actions, and accepts all results or situations of their actions, then the strongest becomes firm and it shows their large heart. If you don't give any reactions to them, it shows your emotional stability and mental strength. If you have a tolerance limit and the capacity to struggle against poison, nobody can manipulate you because you are not a slave to them; you are independent.
Final Thoughts
Don't complain, make a change. Every day you wake up is a new start, a chance to make a difference, to change, to be positive and to start living life your way. Don't complain about your problems, make changes. Don't like a situation? Change it. Want something? Go out and get it. Always have the courage to be yourself. And remember a negative mind will never give a positive life. If you want change, you have to change your way of thinking, and our e-book is here to help you do that, It offers 50 deep questions designed to get you thinking about life in new ways, and experience it in new ways. Check it out now.
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