I’m Bethany, a qualified relationship counsellor with more than 20 years’ experience helping people understand relationships, communication and connection.

Over the years, I’ve seen how much dating has changed — especially for people returning to it later in life. Dating apps, messaging, online profiles and modern expectations can feel completely different from the dating world many people remember.

That’s why I created Modern Dating After 40.

My approach is practical, respectful and straightforward. I’m not interested in pickup lines, games or pretending to be someone you’re not. I help men understand how they may be coming across, communicate more confidently and create better opportunities for genuine connection.

My advice focuses on real-life skills: building a strong dating profile, choosing the right photos, starting conversations, reading social cues, handling rejection, navigating first dates and developing healthier communication.

Whether you’re newly single, have been out of the dating world for years, or simply feel like modern dating isn’t making much sense, my goal is to make the process feel clearer, less intimidating and much more manageable.

Because finding a meaningful connection after 40 is absolutely still possible — sometimes you just need a better approach.