Let’s have a conversation about that “little voice inside your head”.
Let us begin with; What is it you feel in your heart that you were called to do?
Well??? What is that feeling, that tug, that wakes you up in the middle of the night because you cannot sleep feeling you have most nights? You know the one. The one that no matter what it is that you are doing it always pulls you in that direction.
Now that you have that hearts desire, what is it that the little voice inside your head tells you? Is it positive things or negative things? Is it both? Is it a combination, yet more negative than positive? Or maybe it is actually the opposite?
For most people unfortunately, that little voice inside the head says all kinds of negative things. How many of you can relate to some of these comments that your little voice tells you? “What do you think you are doing?”, “What ever were you thinking when you made that decision?”, “Oh, you just got in over your head didn’t you?”, “Why did you let that person talk you into doing that, you have no business doing that?”, “You are not gonna make it, so why even try?”, “That is so not your cup of tea?”, “You can’t do that, what made you think you could?”, “Who do you think you are, Superman/Superwoman?”, “That idea will never work?”, “Life is just too much, you need to wait til this, that, or the other happens; then you can focus on that.”, “You will never make a difference in anyones life, so why bother?”, “You have tried and tried and tried and it still hasn’t worked out, why don’t you just give up on that pipe dream?”.
Do any of those things sound familiar to you?
Those are just a few of the comments, statements, self talk things that my little voice say to me each and every day. I get it. I understand how it is sometimes. “Life” does happen and it is going to happen. It is what we choose to do with “life” when it happens that makes us who we are. (-Martin Vidal). Some days I really do struggle. Yet I keep plugging away and I want to encourage you to do the same for yourself. Start slow and you will begin to see the change for the better. I promise you, you will.
It is as simple as doing one thing to work towards that hearts desire you have that will get you there. The difference between you and those that you see as successful is only one thing. They are doing something every day to work towards their dream. (-Martin Vidal). Are you doing at least one thing every day to work towards your dream? Only you can honestly answer that. Choose that one thing every day. You could talk to people and let them know what you do. You could attend business meetings and introduce yourself there. You can create an online video channel and record one video every day. You can hire a coach. You can designate a certain amount of time each day to read a positive book to help change that little voice inside your head from negative to positive. (I want to encourage you to get Jon Gordon’s positivity books…they are so inspiring and they teach you some of the one step/one thing you can do each day to make a change to the positive). Get yourself an Accountability Coach/Friend, someone you can confide in and who will truly keep you on track and on target to reach your goals/dreams/desires.
There is a saying I started in 2022 that I would like to share with you:
“Every step you take towards your dream, brings you one step closer to your dream”.
YOU GOT THIS!!!
I want to encourage you to follow your dreams! I Believe In You! You are so worth it! You Deserve It! Go Out There and Make It Happen! You Can Do It!