Sense of Self or Not?

Why do some people have a clear sense of self and direction and others not?

This is a complex question, for some people have energy fields that are simply more open and fluid, needing more freedom in their sense of self and expression.

One is not better than the other. If you have a strong sense of self and a defined direction, this is wonderful and appreciate it.

But, if your energy is more undefined in terms of identity and life direction, this is valid and honest too, and is to be embraced!

Consider these questions:

·      Who am I?

·      Who am I going to love? & Who is going to love me?

·      How do I find them? & Where can I find them?

·      What am I going to do with my life?

·      Where should I go to figure out what to do with my life?

·      Why do I feel lost?

Although every person faces these questions, some of us find that these questions are more consistently stressful for us, and we never seem to settle on one answer that satisfies us completely.

If your sense of self is more fluid and undefined , is incredibly helpful in giving yourself permission to go with the flow of your energy, and take the pressure off yourself from having to define yourself in the way that makes you feel restricted and untrue.

You don’t need to pressure yourself into definitions in order to relate to others or fit in with those around you.

You can be comfortable with a more fluid sense of self from day to day that is personal to you and that does not need to be proven to others! This is the key.

If your sense of self feels undefined, embrace this and stop trying to define yourself and prove yourself to others.

Sense of self and direction is deeply personal, and only you can find balance in your life relating to this. Seeking attention and approval from others so you can define yourself, is a road that leads to stress and distress.

Make peace with your energy nature and embrace who you are as a natural and whole human being. If you’d like some extra support, consider a session of clearing emotions, or a Reiki session, or even working with the Healing Resonance Clearing script.

Be well.