You have considered the options. You have gathered the information. You may have even made the decision. Then the questions begin again. What if I missed something? What if I make the wrong choice? What if I regret it? What will other people think? ...

“I’m a people pleaser.” “How do I stop being a people pleaser?” “Why am I such a people pleaser?” These questions make it sound as though people-pleasing is part of your personality, something weak, faulty or broken inside you. It isn’t. Caring abou...