What people are saying
"The Reset is one of the most honest books, I've read about what happens to you after motherhood."
"It named something I've felt but never said out loud, the sense of losing parts of yourself once you become a mum.
What struck me most was how openly the author reflects on her own childhood and adulthood, and how those experiences shaped her identity, her relationships, her patterns.
It made me look at my own story with more understanding and less judgment.
She also gets real about how friendships change as we grow. The distance, the sadness, the growth. Instead of framing it as loss, she reframes it as part of becoming who you're meant to be.
What sets this book apart is how interactive it is. Each chapter ends with breathing exercises and proclamations that help rebuild self-trust.
It doesn't feel like being told what to do. It feels like being guided back to yourself.
If you're a mum who feels overwhelmed, lost, or disconnected from who you used to be, this book will meet you there. It's comforting, empowering, and it reminds you: finding yourself again isn't selfish. It's necessary."
— Julia x
About Me
Gladys Obaze is the founder of Go Be You Be Human, helping high-achieving women close the gap between who they really are and how they've been showing up. She's not here for the perfectly curated version of you, she's here for the reset, the rebuild, and the woman who finally stops shrinking.