Make room for a clearer decision
You can want something deeply and still be uncertain whether it fits your life. You can know what matters and face limits in time, money, energy or support.
Deciphering Yourself: Want / Need / Afford is a practical reflection guide by Alexander Odere. Explore what you hope for, what supports you and what you can realistically sustain—then choose a considered next step.
Three lenses. One situation at a time.
- Want: Understand the desire, its influences and what you expect it to provide.
- Need: Identify the foundations that support your wellbeing and functioning.
- Afford: Examine financial, emotional, mental, time, practical and values-based capacity.
Apply the framework across identity, relationships, career, money, family and personal growth. For adults of any gender, whether single, partnered or not seeking romance.
Your A$24 bundle includes
- 70-page PDF e-book: seven chapters, clickable contents, bookmarks and reading notes, in the navy-and-gold Inner Compass design.
- EPUB e-book: reflowable text for compatible reading apps.
- 24-page printable A4 workbook: 12 exercises, a completed fictional example and your reusable Deciphering Map.
The book is approximately 11,972 words. Dedicated chapter openings and reflection pages give you room to pause. Use the exercises at your own pace; “I don’t know yet” is an available answer.
Before you buy
Delivery: Digital download through the Payhip download page and purchase email. One purchase; no subscription. No app, audiobook, coaching or physical book is included.
Workbook: Designed for A4 printing and handwriting, not a fillable form. You can use your own notebook. You do not need to send your answers to the author or Payhip.
Scope: A reflection resource, not a scientifically validated assessment, diagnosis, personality label or compatibility score. No personal or relationship outcome is guaranteed. Stories are fictional illustrations. General education, not individual legal, financial, medical or therapeutic advice. If danger or coercion is involved, prioritise safety and appropriate support.
You may print and reuse blank worksheets for personal use. Resale and commercial reproduction rights are not included; statutory exceptions and consumer rights are not excluded.
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