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Raluca Vicar

Hi, I'm Raluca.

"We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience."

This quote by Pierre Teilhard de Chardin found me at a crossroads. It was the catalyst for a radical questioning of everything I knew: my purpose, my identity, and the very fabric of my life. That period of deconstruction taught me a vital truth: the mind needs a dedicated space to unfold.


Today, I serve as a coach and a mentor for aspiring coaches. I believe that the coaching container is one of the most underrated tools for human evolution. While I fulfil my roles in society, I consider myself—above all else—a seeker of truth. I am here to help you navigate your own key stages of growth and uncover the truth of who you are behind the roles you play.


Why Work With Me?

I am not here to lead you; I am here to facilitate the moment you decide to lead yourself.


Choosing a coach is about finding the right container for your evolution. Here is what I bring to our partnership:

  • Evidence-Based Depth: My approach is grounded in an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, ensuring that our work is supported by the science of human flourishing.
  • Professional Integrity: As an EMCC Accredited Coach and Mentor, I uphold the highest global standards of ethics and practice, providing a safe, high-integrity container for your transformation.
  • The Disruptor’s Edge: I don’t settle for the status quo. If you are looking for someone to simply validate your current path, I am not the coach for you. I challenge unsustainable behaviours and mindsets, helping you strip away the layers of societal conforming to uncover your most authentic self.
  • A Space for Unfolding: Most of the world wants you to move faster. I provide the rare, unacknowledged space where your mind can actually slow down, unfold, and understand itself.
  • Truth over Trends: We won't focus on "hacks" or surface-level productivity. We focus on the truth of your purpose and your experience as a spiritual being in a complex world.
  • Commitment to Growth: Whether we are engaged in a high-intensity 45-minute challenge or a deep 90-minute contextual exploration, I mirror back to you the amazingness you may have forgotten you possess.


Are you ready to stop playing a role and start creating your legacy?



What is one belief you are holding onto only because society told you to?


What people are saying

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I'm incredibly grateful for the support and guidance I received from my coach, Raluca throughout my coaching qualification. Her knowledge, professionalism, and genuine care made a challenging process feel manageable and empowering. She consistently created a safe, encouraging space for reflection and growth, while also holding me to high standards that truly elevated my confidence and competence as a coach. Her regular feedback was thoughtful, practical, and always delivered with kindness and clarity. Thanks to Raluca mentorship, I not only completed my qualification successfully, but I also developed a much deeper understanding of myself and my coaching practice. I would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking for a coach or mentor who is both highly skilled and deeply supportive.

— Bijal L.(Advisor @Newham Council)

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If you are ready for open and honest conversations, and willing to reflect and receive feedback as growth rather than criticism, this is a supportive space. You will be challenged to step into the uncomfortable and unknown, but in a way that invites exploration. Being straightforward, open, and asking questions in the moment is encouraged, and it works both ways.

— Anonymous

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The way that Raluca could cut through my waffle and deflections and get right to the heart of what was going on which in most cases was my reluctance to believe in myself when all the evidence was contrary to what my thought patterns were. [...] Raluca has believed in me, encouraged me, challenged me when I have need to be pushed to achieve my goals. She has provided me with a safe space to share my fears, my successes and my doubts in a way which allowed me to feel free to show my own vulnerabilities and to celebrate my achievements in equal measure. Thank you Raluca your support which has been much appreciated on my journey to becoming a qualified coach.

— Mark H. (Manager @Norfolk and Suffolk NHS Foundation Trust)

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Raluca is an experienced coach who comes to the sessions well prepared. I always found Raluca to be fully present in our sessions. When I had self doubt Raluca would challenge me in the right way and that I was comfortable with. I feel that having Raluca as my coach supervisor was a positive experience and pushed me to complete my level 5. Outside of the coaching relationship Raluca was supportive and friendly and we maintained and trusted relationship. I have developed as a person and become more self aware.

— Anonymous

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Working with Raluca Vicar as my coach, mentor and supervisor has been genuinely transformative. Her supportive yet structured approach created a spacewhere I could reflect deeply, build confidence, and develop a clearer, more grounded coaching style. She combines professionalism with a calm, encouragingpresence, offering thoughtful challenge and practical guidance that consistently helped me grow. Whether preparing for key milestones, navigatingchallenges, or refining my coaching practice, Raluca’s insight and reliability made a real difference. I’d highly recommend her to anyone looking for a coach orsupervisor who is skilled, reflective, and genuinely committed to their development.

— Marc G. (Systems & Service Improvement Manager @ Ministry of Justice)

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[...] the continuous high level of supervision has been prevalent throughout with my supervisor.

She has provided a safe space for me as a peer with my cognitive reasonable adjustment, when things became tough I reached out more and she still made the time to be supportive and provide alternative ideas to manage my stress levels when things became tough.

She shows a genuine empathy and authenticity that is quite rare and I'm grateful I was supervised by her.

Raluca has the type of patience that a saint would be proud of!

Her empathy and kindness and guidance allows you to be YOU no matter what issues/challenges come your way.

— Anonymous

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I found the overall experience to be positive. Raluca has been a tremendous help and consistently provided a safe, reflective environment for me to explore and grow. [Coaching] helped me to value the importance of being in that 'uncomfortable state' which is optimum for learning. The impact is immeasurable. It has changed the way I think, how I respond and how I perceive situations. I am more in-tune with other people and what they are/aren't telling me. [Future clients] are in safe hands, but they must be prepared to have some 'layers' peeled back and discussed. You will unearth some of your own truths.

— Jason B. (Professional Lead Pharmacy Technician @ Central & North West London NHS Foundation Trust)

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Really reassuring and encouraging. Uplifting. I felt overwhelmed but you made me feel like I could get through my apprenticeship. You even suggested I might aim to get a Distinction which was so far off my radar for most of the time, but you sowed that seed, and right at the end I felt I could do it, and I did it, and I feel really pleased with myself. You listened to me when I was panicking, you were calm and kind, you reassured me that everything was ok. I often struggled with the amount of information but you were patient and were always available to offer help. One thing I look back on with a smile was your response to watching a coaching session: "You're a transformational coach!" This gave me a real boost and confidence that I was actually a coach and coaching in a way that meant something to me and was real. Then you asked me when I was setting up my coaching business. Your faith in me gave me confidence that I could do this. You were also there for my fellow apprentices which reinforced my network and supported them too. Your group sessions were really good - built connections and confidence across the group as well as giving us information. Your patience, unflappability, insight, personal ethics (I felt I could talk to you when I didn't feel comfortable about some things in the coaching world). On occasions I've seen 'hierarchical' ego-driven personalities or behaviour acting out in the coaching family but you were never like that. You reinforced for me the power of coaching as an inclusive, empowering, respectful space, and set the standard for my own ethics and behaviour. [I learnt that] coaching is a 2-way relationship, not a 'service'. If you two hit it off and Raluca's the right coach for you, then lucky you! Enjoy!

— Anonymous