I’m a Type A Eldest Daughter of 8 siblings. I have 3 sisters and 5 brothers, but we all have a different mom or dad. After growing up with such a jumbled family dynamic, and seeing my mom marrying men for her children’s stability and not for love, I have a lot of anxiety around children, because their childhood literally makes who they are as an adult. I really want to be a mom, but I want to be able to give my kid(s), everything I couldn’t have. A stable family dynamic, no money stress, a savings account for college/adulthood, a good and reliable father, enrolled in multiple extracurriculars, etc. This comes with a lot of planning, and money...so what does a Type A girl do when she’s stressed? She makes a list, and in my case, a Baby Bucketlist.