Extracts taken from the resource workbook by Paul M Critchlow © 2024,
“Empowering Your Pre-Teen for Success in School and Life”,
released 29 April 2024
Pre-teen years, typically spanning ages 9 to 12, are a crucial time in a child's development. During this period, children experience significant physical, emotional, and social changes as they transition from childhood to adolescence. Building resilience in pre-teens is essential for helping them navigate these challenges and thrive in the face of adversity. In this blog, we'll explore practical strategies for parents and educators to foster resilience in pre-teens.
Understanding Resilience
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks, adapt to change, and thrive despite adversity. It's a valuable skill that can help pre-teens overcome challenges, build confidence, and develop a positive outlook on life. As parents and educators, understanding the components of resilience can guide us in supporting pre-teens on their journey.
Promoting Positive Self-Esteem
One of the foundations of resilience is a positive self-esteem. Encourage pre-teens to recognize their strengths, talents, and achievements. Celebrate their successes, no matter how small, and provide encouragement and support during times of struggle. By nurturing their self-esteem, you can help pre-teens develop the confidence and self-assurance they need to face challenges head-on.
Teaching Coping Skills
Coping skills are essential tools for managing stress and adversity. Teach pre-teens healthy coping strategies such as deep breathing exercises, mindfulness techniques, and positive self-talk. Encourage them to express their feelings in healthy ways, whether through journaling, art, or physical activity. By equipping pre-teens with effective coping skills, you can help them navigate the ups and downs of life with resilience and grace.
Fostering Problem-Solving Skills
Pre-teens will inevitably encounter obstacles and challenges in their lives. Fostering problem-solving skills can help them approach these challenges with confidence and resilience. Encourage pre-teens to identify problems, brainstorm possible solutions, and evaluate the pros and cons of each option. Teach them to break big problems into smaller, more manageable tasks, and celebrate their successes along the way. By empowering pre-teens to solve problems independently, you can help them develop resilience and confidence in their abilities.
Building Supportive Relationships
Strong, supportive relationships are crucial for fostering resilience in pre-teens. Encourage pre-teens to cultivate friendships with peers who uplift and encourage them. Be there to listen and offer guidance during times of struggle, and provide a safe and nurturing home environment. Additionally, foster positive relationships between pre-teens and their teachers, coaches, and other adults in their lives. By building supportive relationships, you can help pre-teens feel valued, understood, and supported as they navigate life's challenges.
Conclusion
Building resilience in pre-teens is essential for helping them navigate the challenges of adolescence and emerge stronger and more confident individuals. By promoting positive self-esteem, teaching coping skills, fostering problem-solving skills, and building supportive relationships, parents and educators can empower pre-teens to thrive in the face of adversity.
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