Do you love hard? Have you ever wondered what you should do after a breakup? Have you ever searched for ways to heal and overcome the pain of loosing a person you were deeply in love with? I have. In 2018 I lost the woman who I thought I was going to marry and the process almost killed me. In one of the darkest places I have ever been in my life, a breakup, I decided to write what I thought I should do to move on. In doing so I helped heal myself by writing Birthdays and Breakups: The Art of Letting Go. Birthdays and Breakups is a self help novel to help you move on and let go after a terrible breakup.