Growing and Winning[TWD Publication Vol III
Conflicts with teenagers are often framed unwittingly as struggles between the desires of the teenager for autonomy and the parent desires for obedience, achievement at school or help around the house. If this occurs and push comes to shove, many adolescents will pay (getting yelled at or grounded, losing allowances etc.) to fulfill the need that is more important to them at any cost.
What are these needs?
How can parents and their teens get to a consensus?