I am an AASECT-Certified Sexuality Educator, an AASECT Individual Continuing Education Provider, an ISEE-Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator, and a sex and relationship coach. I (she/her) am a middle-aged, bisexual, disabled, quirky, queer, kinky, cisgender woman living and creating on Choctaw and Chitimacha land, also known as New Orleans, LA, with the spouse of my dreams and our many beloved pets.

I specialize in sex and relationship coaching for people affected by chronic pain and Post-SSRI/SNRI Sexual Dysfunction (PSSD).

Over twenty years ago, before entering the field of sexuality education, I was one test away from becoming a licensed architect when a car accident changed that path. After becoming disabled, I searched for guidance on how to maintain a sexuality while living with chronic pain, and found very little that addressed both honestly and practically.

So I built the education I couldn’t find.

I became certified through AASECT and ISEE and now serve as an AASECT Continuing Education Provider, teaching other educators, counselors, and therapists. I studied the science of chronic pain: how it affects the brain, nervous system, and body physiologically and psychologically, while continuing to learn from research, lived experience, and community wisdom.

As my chronic pain persisted, I was prescribed multiple SSRIs and SNRIs, medications commonly used for both depression and pain management. I later developed PSSD. That experience further shaped my understanding of how pain, medication, intimacy, and identity intersect.

This is not theoretical work for me. It is lived, studied, and practiced.

I provide comprehensive, holistic sexuality education for individuals and their partners or caregivers, offering personalized guidance and practical strategies that honor the complexity of each person’s experience.

My goal is to listen and help you, given your current circumstances. I cannot magically remove your pain or provide you with a different life, but I can help you find and develop tools to reduce suffering or work on your sexuality. While I may draw from psychological or therapeutic frameworks when helpful, our work focuses on education and developing practical, personalized tools.

I provide virtual coaching/education sessions for individuals or couples. I offer a FREE 15-minute consultation to determine if we are a good fit.