The Complete Beyond the Moment Toolkit: Everything You Need to Raise Your Black Child With Honesty

I spent 49 years not knowing what it felt like to see myself in another person's face. White family, white neighborhood, white school, white church, and a mirror that showed me someone nobody around me could explain. I cried looking at my own reflection as a child, and spent my teenage years performing for everyone, buying friendships, trying to fit into two worlds that neither one ever fully opened up for me. I carried rage I couldn't name and found things to numb it with when the weight got too heavy. Nobody around me knew the full picture of what was going on, and I didn't have the words to tell them even if I had believed they would understand.

When I found my biological family at 49, something landed in me that I'm still trying to find the right language for. That was the first time I saw myself in another person's face. I'm still working through what was lost and what got left behind in all those years of trying to figure out who I was without that foundation. That process doesn't have a finish line, but what it gave me is the knowledge that I now put into everything I create for parents doing this right now.

This bundle is all of it in one place.

All four guides are included, starting with the foundational Raising a Black Child in a White Family, the Race Talk Toolkit for starting the conversations your child needs, the School Advocacy Playbook for showing up in institutions that weren't built with your child in mind, and the Year-by-Year Milestones Guide for understanding what your child is navigating at every stage from five through eighteen. There is also bonus content that isn't available anywhere else, covering the conversations adult Black adoptees wish their parents had had, how to navigate the hard questions in high school, and how to stay connected as your child grows into adulthood.

One investment covers the complete picture, from the first years of childhood through adulthood.

$97 gets you instant digital access to all four guides and the bonus content. Download it today.