Ohana Valenti writes books on human development, physical and mental. The focus is on becoming a calmer, stronger and more confident man, and on how that shows up in dating and in everyday life.

The guides here are practical and unhurried Calm presence before the first word

— Conversation that moves a match toward a real date

— Habits that look kind but quietly work against you

Just clear ideas you can try today.

Ohana Valenti is a pen name

✉ Questions? ohanavalenti@gmail.com