Sexual lust, or desire, was produced by much more than just physical stimulation. For women, it has more to do with feelings of connectedness in their relationships: "Heart to heart, soul to soul, even mind to mind." When talk about sexual connecting, peak sexual experiences as coming from stimulation all over their bodies--not just from their genitals--including fingers, toes, hips, lips, neck, and earlobes. Properly, satisfaction and arousal evolve not only from receiving sexual energy, but also from the joy of stimulating one's partner. Sex, then, is a commitment of take and give.