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Ms. Erika

I advocate for Black women's sovereignty, safety, and self-worth.

In Her Own Words

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I’m usually skeptical of books with titles like this because they can feel overly preachy, but this one is different. It’s incredibly precise. It forces you to look at the reality of misogyny and ego without making excuses for it. The chapters on financial...



Nia J.

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Wow. Just wow. This book didn't just read me, it read every situationship and bad relationship I've ever been in. The breakdown of how manipulation and weaponized incompetence actually work is so spot on it’s scary. It gave me the vocabulary...



Tasha W.

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I finished this in two sittings because I literally couldn’t put it down. If you’ve ever felt like you were going crazy or second-guessing your own reality in a relationship, this book will make you feel so seen. It completely names the exact behaviors...



Jayla M.

Editorials By Ms. Erika

When He Thinks Your Boundaries Are a Personal Attack
A boundary tells another person where your participation ends. It might protect your time, your body, your money, your home, your attention, or your safety. It doesn’t control what another adult does. It clarifies what you’ll do when his choices int...
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Why accountability feels like disrespect to an entitled man.
Accountability Equals Disrespect Only When He's Entitled
There is a certain kind of man who can explain everything he did, but he cannot take responsibility for any of it. He can tell you why he lied. He can explain why he disappeared. He can give you the full history of every disappointment, betrayal, an...
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