Break the cycle. Take your life back
Onye | Evidence-Based Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy
Can't stop thinking about him?
WHEN IT’S AFFECTING YOUR PEACE
Calm the Spiral
You keep telling yourself this time will be different.
And somehow you keep ending up back in the same place.
He pulls away.
You feel it immediately.
You check your phone.
Replay the conversation.
Wonder what changed.
Then he comes back...
…and the relief makes everything feel okay again.
Until the next time.
That’s the cycle.
And it doesn’t necessarily stop just because the relationship does.
You might still be in it.
You might have finally left.
Or you might feel yourself getting pulled back towards something you promised yourself you wouldn’t return to.
Wherever you are in the cycle, the question now is what it’s doing to you.
And after a while, it doesn’t just affect the relationship.
It starts affecting you.
Your sleep.
Your concentration.
Your confidence.
Your peace.
Even the way you see yourself.
And then comes the part you might not be telling anyone anymore.
You’re embarrassed that you’re still here.
YOU’RE NOT LOOKING FOR ANOTHER EXPLANATION OF HIM
You’ve probably already spent hours trying to understand what’s happening.
Why he pulls away.
Why he comes back.
Why everything can feel so good and then suddenly change.
But understanding the relationship hasn’t stopped the cycle from taking over your head.
Because when it happens again, the response can feel automatic.
The checking.
The replaying.
The urge to reach out.
The feeling that you can’t settle until something changes.
That’s the part we work on here.
Not decoding him.
Breaking the cycle that keeps pulling you back in.
BECAUSE THIS IS COSTING YOU MORE THAN THE RELATIONSHIP
Women have described that cost to me in their own words:
“I am losing precious time.”
“It is interfering with my future plans.”
“My peace, my health and happiness.”
And that’s the part that matters.
Because while so much of your attention is on what he’s doing...
your life is still happening.
Your work.
Your children.
Your friendships.
Your plans.
Your sleep.
Your confidence.
And eventually, your trust in yourself.
The longer the cycle continues, the more of your life it gets to take with it.
You don’t need to keep suffering your way through it.
THAT’S WHERE CALM THE SPIRAL COMES IN
Calm the Spiral is a Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy audio designed to help calm the automatic thoughts, feelings and responses that keep pulling you back into the same pattern.
This isn’t another course about avoidant attachment.
There’s nothing to study.
No worksheets.
No homework.
No trying harder.
You press play.
Most women listen as they go to sleep.
The work is focused on you - so your peace doesn’t have to keep depending on what he does next.
Less checking.
Less replaying.
Less reacting.
More of you back.
START CALM THE SPIRAL TONIGHT - £37
WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING
★★★★★
“I still have the loop but it’s not consuming me constantly.”
★★★★★
“For the first time in five weeks I regulated my breathing, my racing heart settled... and I actually slept.”
★★★★★
“It calmed the voice screaming at me to reach out.”
He didn’t have to change for them to start feeling different.
WHAT COULD CHANGE FOR YOU?
Imagine he goes quiet...
…and you don’t lose the next three days trying to work out what happened.
Imagine waking up...
…and your first instinct isn’t to check your phone.
Imagine being with your children and actually being there.
Imagine having your attention back for your work, your friends and your own plans.
And if he comes back...
instead of automatically being pulled straight back into the cycle...
you get to decide what you want.
That’s what taking your life back looks like.
Not controlling him.
Getting yourself back.
WHAT YOU GET
Calm the Spiral - £37
✓ Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy audio
✓ Immediate access - start tonight
✓ Lifetime access on any device
✓ Emergency Reset - a two-minute audio for when the spiral suddenly hits
✓ Simple 7, 14 and 21-day check-ins to help you stay consistent and notice what’s changing
No appointment.
No preparation.
No course to finish.
Just press play.
START YOUR FIRST SESSION TONIGHT - £37
BREAK THE CYCLE.
TAKE YOUR LIFE BACK.
Before You Buy
If you’ve listened consistently for the full 21 days and genuinely feel nothing has shifted, please get in touch. We’ll help you work through it.
Because this is a digital product with immediate access, purchases are non-refundable.
This session is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical or mental health care.
Results vary.
Do not listen while driving or operating machinery.
Fighting the impulse to reach out?
WHEN YOU CAN’T STOP REACHING OUT
No Contact Reset
When the impulse comes, reach for this instead of reaching for him.
You’ve made it through the day. Maybe longer.
Then something happens.
He goes quiet. You miss him. You see something that reminds you of him. Or the silence simply becomes too much.
And suddenly your hand is on your phone.
You check.
You type the message. Delete it. Type another one.
You tell yourself you’re not going to send it, and now you’re fighting yourself not to reach out.
Whether you’re still in the relationship, you’ve left, or you’re trying not to get pulled back in, this is the moment No Contact Reset is designed for.
BECAUSE ONE MESSAGE CAN PUT YOU RIGHT BACK IN THE CYCLE
You finally start to settle.
Then the impulse hits and you send the message.
Now you’re waiting again.
Has he read it?
Why hasn’t he replied?
Was the message too much?
Should you send another one?
And if he does respond, there’s the relief.
For a moment.
Until something changes again.
That’s the cycle.
Every time you get pulled back into it, your peace is back in the hands of whatever he does next.
No Contact Reset gives you something else to do in that moment.
Before you open his chat, press play.
THAT’S WHERE NO CONTACT RESET COMES IN
No Contact Reset is a Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy audio designed for the moments when the impulse to contact him feels hardest to resist.
It doesn’t ask you to spend the next hour fighting with yourself.
There’s no course, homework, worksheets or journalling.
When the impulse hits, press play.
Use the session as the thing you reach for instead of reaching for him.
Most women also listen before bed to reinforce the work between those difficult moments.
The aim is simple.
Less reaching. Less checking. Less waiting.
More choice over what you do next.
START NO CONTACT RESET TONIGHT £37
WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING
★★★★★
“Took me out of my own head and helped calm the voice screaming at me to reach out.”
★★★★★
“Successfully maintained no contact for 20 days. My favourite line: ‘You are not abandoning him. You are returning to yourself.’”
That’s the shift we’re looking for.
The impulse can be there without getting to decide what you do next.
IMAGINE GETTING THROUGH THE MOMENT DIFFERENTLY
The impulse hits and instead of opening his chat, you press play.
You pick up your phone and put it back down.
You make it through tonight without sending the message.
Tomorrow morning you wake up and there’s no message to regret.
No waiting for his reply.
No wondering whether you’ve undone all your progress.
And the next time the impulse comes, you have something to reach for that brings you back to yourself instead of back to him.
That’s what breaking the cycle looks like in the moment.
WHAT YOU GET
No Contact Reset £37
✓ Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy audio
✓ Immediate access so you can use it the moment the impulse hits
✓ Lifetime access on any device
✓ Simple 7, 14 and 21-day check-ins to help you stay consistent and notice what’s changing
No appointment. No preparation. No course to finish.
Just press play.
START YOUR FIRST SESSION TONIGHT £37
BREAK THE CYCLE. TAKE YOUR LIFE BACK.
Before You Buy
If you’ve listened consistently for the full 21 days and genuinely feel nothing has shifted, please get in touch. We’ll help you work through it.
Because this is a digital product with immediate access, purchases are non-refundable.
This session is for educational and personal development purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Results vary.
Do not listen while driving or operating machinery.
Break the cycle. Take your life back.
THE RESET SERIES
The Complete Reset Bundle
Break the cycle. Take your life back.
Sometimes it isn’t just the overthinking.
Or the impulse to reach out.
Or the relationship you can’t seem to leave behind.
It’s all of it.
Your mind won’t switch off.
You keep getting pulled back towards him.
And underneath it, there’s a pattern that can follow you from one relationship to the next.
If more than one part of the cycle is affecting you, that’s what The Reset Series was created for.
Three Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy sessions.
Each working on a different part of the cycle.
So you don’t just get through the next difficult moment. You start changing the pattern underneath it.
START THE COMPLETE RESET £77
THE CYCLE DOESN’T ALWAYS END WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP DOES
You might still be with him.
You might have left and still feel consumed by it.
Or you might be trying not to get pulled back into something you fought hard to get out of.
And sometimes you get through one part...
only for another part to take over.
You stop contacting him, but your mind is still consumed by him.
The spiral settles, but the pull is still there.
You finally leave this relationship, but find yourself terrified of repeating the same dynamic again.
That’s why The Reset Series works on all three parts.
Your Reset Series
1. Calm the Spiral
For when your mind won’t leave the relationship alone.
The checking. Replaying. Analysing. The sick feeling when something changes.
This is where you start calming the noise and getting some space back in your own head.
2. No Contact Reset
For the moments when the impulse to check, text or call takes over.
Instead of reaching for him, you have something else to reach for.
Something designed to help you get through the moment without putting yourself straight back into the cycle.
3. Attachment Reset
This is where the work goes deeper.
Once there’s more space in your head and less pull towards him, Attachment Reset focuses on the pattern underneath it.
The part that can keep drawing you towards the same relationship dynamic, even when the person changes.
Because getting over one man isn’t the same as breaking the cycle.
WHAT HAPPENS IF THE PATTERN DOESN’T CHANGE?
This is bigger than another breakup.
Women have described what these patterns have cost them:
“I am losing precious time.”
“It is interfering with my future plans.”
“My peace, my health and happiness.”
Because while so much of your attention is caught up in the relationship, your life is still happening.
Your work.
Your children.
Your friendships.
Your confidence.
Your plans.
Your future.
Breaking the cycle means getting those parts of you back too.
THIS ISN’T ANOTHER COURSE
There’s nothing to study.
No homework.
No worksheets.
No journalling.
You simply listen.
Start with Calm the Spiral, then work through No Contact Reset and Attachment Reset in order.
Most women listen as they go to sleep.
The programme is designed to fit into your life, not become another thing you have to complete.
WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING
★★★★★
“For the first time in five weeks I regulated my breathing, stopped my racing heart and I actually slept.”
★★★★★
“Took me out of my own head and helped calm the voice screaming at me to reach out.”
★★★★★
“Successfully maintained no contact for 20 days. My favourite line: ‘You are not abandoning him. You are returning to yourself.’”
★★★★★
“The loop is still there sometimes, but it isn’t consuming me anymore.”
IMAGINE WHAT CHANGES WHEN THE CYCLE STOPS RUNNING YOUR LIFE
Your mind becomes quieter.
He goes silent and it doesn’t take your whole day with it.
The impulse to contact him comes and you don’t automatically act on it.
If he comes back, you get to decide what you want.
And eventually, you stop choosing relationships from the same old pattern.
You have your attention back.
Your peace back.
Your plans back.
Your choices become yours again.
That’s what taking your life back looks like.
WHAT YOU GET
The Complete Reset Bundle £77
✓ Calm the Spiral
✓ No Contact Reset
✓ Attachment Reset
✓ Emergency Reset, a two-minute audio for when the spiral suddenly spikes
✓ Immediate access to every session
✓ Lifetime access on any device
✓ Simple 7, 14 and 21-day check-ins to help you stay consistent and notice what’s changing
Everything is ready as soon as you purchase.
No waiting. No appointment. No preparation.
Start with the first session tonight.
GET THE COMPLETE RESET £77
Save £34 compared with purchasing the sessions separately.
Break the cycle. Take your life back.
Before You Buy
If you’ve listened consistently for the full 21 days and genuinely feel nothing has shifted, please get in touch. We’ll help you work through it.
Because this is a digital product with immediate access, purchases are non-refundable.
These sessions are for educational and personal development purposes only. They are not a substitute for medical or mental health care. Results vary.
Do not listen while driving or operating machinery.
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