The Dynamics of Sex: Understanding Sexuality, Intimacy and Fulfilment for a Better Life
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The Dynamics of Sex: Understanding Sexuality, Intimacy, and Fulfilment for a Better Life
''Why the person who unsettles you is rarely the one you expected—and what to do about it.'' Wisdom Akinpelu
Nobody plans it. That is exactly the problem.
Mrs Junipertree had been faithfully married for twelve years. She married as a virgin. She led women's groups at her church. And she cannot now explain to anyone how she came to be one month pregnant by a man she barely knew.
Mr Rockandsand was certain none of this applied to him. He was happily married, newly promoted, and confident in his own discipline. Within a month of arriving in a new country he was holding a video he could not un-see.
Neither of them set out to do what they did. Something reached them that they had no defence against, and they did not recognise it until it was too late.
This book names that thing.
Rev. Wisdom O. Akinpelu calls it the sexual electromagnetic wave: the unprovoked charge that travels between two people, without invitation and often without warning. It is not a moral failing. It is a normal part of being human, and it is God's own gift. The difficulty has never been the gift. It has always been what we do with it.
*The Dynamics of Sex* takes two ordinary people, tells their stories in full, and then takes both cases apart—what actually reached them, why their own defences were useless, and precisely what each of them could have done differently.
What you will learn
- Why the person everyone else finds beautiful may do nothing for you, while someone unremarkable can undo you completely
- The three questions that reveal how you will handle attraction, all of which trace back to childhood
- Why men are reached mainly through the eyes, and women mainly through the ears
- What happens to your resistance when a marriage routine is interrupted — and the four things that protect it
- How to recognise your own pattern, and keep a distance at which the question never arises
- How honest conversation inside marriage does more to prevent infidelity than willpower ever will
Written for
Married couples, engaged couples, single adults of marriageable age, widows and widowers, pastors, counsellors, and anyone who has ever been surprised by their own reaction to another person.
About the author
Rev. Wisdom O. Akinpelu is an international author with thirteen titles, a public speaker, and a film producer whose serial productions have been broadcast on more than seven television stations across the United Kingdom, Kenya, Uganda, Nigeria and South Africa. He has been married for over twenty years and writes from that experience rather than from theory. He is based in the United Kingdom.
In this revised edition
Volume One of the Anatomy of Sex series. Fully revised and re-edited, with three original diagrams, corrected scripture references, and a plainly worded note on where to find qualified help.
Please note
This book is written for an adult readership. It offers understanding and practical guidance; it is not a substitute for medical care or professional counselling, and it says so plainly wherever that matters.
A free preview is available. Read the first two chapters before you decide.
''Why the person who unsettles you is rarely the one you expected—and what to do about it.'' Wisdom Akinpelu
Nobody plans it. That is exactly the problem.
Mrs Junipertree had been faithfully married for twelve years. She married as a virgin. She led women's groups at her church. And she cannot now explain to anyone how she came to be one month pregnant by a man she barely knew.
Mr Rockandsand was certain none of this applied to him. He was happily married, newly promoted, and confident in his own discipline. Within a month of arriving in a new country he was holding a video he could not un-see.
Neither of them set out to do what they did. Something reached them that they had no defence against, and they did not recognise it until it was too late.
This book names that thing.
Rev. Wisdom O. Akinpelu calls it the sexual electromagnetic wave: the unprovoked charge that travels between two people, without invitation and often without warning. It is not a moral failing. It is a normal part of being human, and it is God's own gift. The difficulty has never been the gift. It has always been what we do with it.
*The Dynamics of Sex* takes two ordinary people, tells their stories in full, and then takes both cases apart—what actually reached them, why their own defences were useless, and precisely what each of them could have done differently.
What you will learn
- Why the person everyone else finds beautiful may do nothing for you, while someone unremarkable can undo you completely
- The three questions that reveal how you will handle attraction, all of which trace back to childhood
- Why men are reached mainly through the eyes, and women mainly through the ears
- What happens to your resistance when a marriage routine is interrupted — and the four things that protect it
- How to recognise your own pattern, and keep a distance at which the question never arises
- How honest conversation inside marriage does more to prevent infidelity than willpower ever will
Written for
Married couples, engaged couples, single adults of marriageable age, widows and widowers, pastors, counsellors, and anyone who has ever been surprised by their own reaction to another person.
About the author
Rev. Wisdom O. Akinpelu is an international author with thirteen titles, a public speaker, and a film producer whose serial productions have been broadcast on more than seven television stations across the United Kingdom, Kenya, Uganda, Nigeria and South Africa. He has been married for over twenty years and writes from that experience rather than from theory. He is based in the United Kingdom.
In this revised edition
Volume One of the Anatomy of Sex series. Fully revised and re-edited, with three original diagrams, corrected scripture references, and a plainly worded note on where to find qualified help.
Please note
This book is written for an adult readership. It offers understanding and practical guidance; it is not a substitute for medical care or professional counselling, and it says so plainly wherever that matters.
A free preview is available. Read the first two chapters before you decide.