Miscarriage Impact Map
A two-page miscarriage impact map for noticing how grief, shame, guilt, fear and loss are showing up, with space to rate each area today and across the week.
You might find this helpful if…
- you have experienced a miscarriage, recently or some time ago
- the loss feels hard to put into words, or has gone unrecognised by the people around you
- you would like to see the many layers of what you are carrying in one place
- you are bringing this experience into therapy and would like somewhere to begin
This resource won't tell you what to do
There are no scores to reach and no order to follow. You can rate one area or all sixteen. Each number is a way of noticing, not a judgement. A high rating reflects how much this loss matters to you.
What's included
- Page 1: a landscape A4 Impact Map with sixteen areas. Each area has space for a rating out of 10 today, a rating this week, and words or sensations
- Page 2: an optional notes and reflections table listing all sixteen areas, with a column for what each area may need
- Gentle closing questions to help you settle after reflecting
The Impact of Miscarriage may be helpful if you're experiencing…
- crushing grief and waves of despair
- grief that others do not recognise or cannot see
- shame about your body, or a sense that it let you down
- guilt and self-blame
- flashbacks or intrusive thoughts
- physical aching, or the feeling of empty arms
- envy, or a loss of standing in social spaces
- anger at the world, at God, or at yourself
- fear of loss happening again, or anxiety about future fertility
- strain and unspoken grief within your relationship
- a loss of identity as a mother or parent
- the lasting impact of the miscarriage and the medical experience
- questions of "why me?"
This resource is not…
- a diagnostic or clinical assessment
- a timeline for how grief will unfold
- a replacement for medical, midwifery or specialist support
Licence
For personal use, or for use within your own practice if you are a practitioner. Please do not share, resell or redistribute the file.
Disclaimer
This resource offers space for reflection and is not a substitute for professional support. It may bring up strong feelings. Complete only what feels safe today, and return to it whenever you choose.
If you have physical symptoms after a miscarriage that worry you, please contact your GP or local Early Pregnancy Unit. The Miscarriage Association and Sands also offer specialist support.
If you would like support in exploring your loss, a counsellor or therapist can walk alongside you at a pace that feels right.
If you are in crisis, please contact your GP, call 999, go to A&E, or call Samaritans on 116 123.
Price and Fees
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Refunds
As this is a digital download, refunds are not usually available once the file has been accessed. If something has gone wrong with your download, please get in touch and we will put it right.