Hi, I’m Renee.

For years, I was the one holding everything together. Working, raising my children, showing up for everyone else. From the outside, life looked fine. But underneath, I was drifting. Living day to day, week to week, pay cheque to pay cheque, with no real plan and no real direction.

I’d go to a seminar or read a book and feel inspired, certain that this time would be different. Then life would return to normal, and I’d slide straight back into the same patterns. I wasn’t lazy, and I wasn’t incapable. I just didn’t yet know how to break the cycle.

My work has always been about people. I’ve worked inside correctional facilities and in youth work, supporting people carrying trauma, chaos and survival far beyond their years. I’ve studied criminology, psychology, NLP and coaching, always searching for the answer to one question: why do some people change, while others stay stuck?

In the end, the most important answers came from my own life. Not from another course, but from awareness, small daily choices and learning to return every time I drifted.

That’s what I now share through Aligned Transformation, in my book The Practice of Becoming and in practical guides like Off Autopilot. I’m not here to tell you to become someone completely different. I’m here to help you notice the patterns running your life, and take the wheel back, one small step at a time.

When I’m not writing or coaching, you’ll find me with my family or at the futsal courts.

You are not broken. You are not behind. You are simply in a stage, and stages can be changed.