Raise your hand if you have been told it is your fault that you are still single. Mine is raised in case you are wondering. I have been told that I am still single because I don’t smile enough, because I am too serious, because I am too outspoken, be...

I found myself in a church service crying my eyes out. I couldn’t stop crying. Of course, I was trying to cry discreetly - so that the congregants don’t start wondering what on earth is wrong with their pastor - but I was inconsolable. I was looking ...

God is more interested in our character than our comfort. I should know. For the past year, I have been in a situation that I would deem less than stellar. I am currently still in that situation mark you. The good Lord has not yet seen fit to extrica...

I don't think one consciously decides to throw in the towel,You just wake up one morning and find that you have no zest for life,You just find yourself asking the question, 'Why bother?'I don't think one consciously decides to throw in the towel,You ...

They told me that anything a man can do, I could do better.They told me that the patriarchy is oppressive and that I needed to fight it.They told me that I need to be more aggressive to survive in a male dominated world.They told me that I need to co...

Dear Depression,I thought we had parted ways, I thought we had ended our relationshipI thought we had resolved our issuesBut i see you are back again.Dear Depression,I don't like it when you visitI don't like it how you sneak up on meI don't like it ...

Weird title, right? How can a pastor be depressed? The pastor is virtually receiving direct instruction from the throne of God, they should be the healthiest. Well, just so you know, I was a pastor and I was depressed. That’s right, I was depressed. ...

Raise your hand is you wrote and self-published three books in a year? My hand is raised, just so you know. One of my dreams is to be a best-selling author. I wanted to write books that help people become everything God designed them to be and in the...

Have you ever had five rejection emails in a week? I have! You heard me; one each day of the week from Monday till Friday. It’s like all the places I had applied to decided to collude and crush my soul in one fell swoop. The rejections didn’t stop th...

Sometimes life sucks. Period. That is our reality. Sometimes you go through spaces where you start to question why you should even bother. Nothing seems to be going your way. Everything that can go wrong decides to do exactly that. I should know. Tha...