Unburnt began in the fire.

Not the kind that scorches buildings — the kind that quietly devours your spirit.

Mine came wrapped in performance reviews, polished emails, and a smiling silence that said “you don’t belong here.”

It happened in rooms I worked hard to earn a place in — and still wasn’t protected.

What followed wasn’t just heartbreak. It was a reckoning.

I realised that sometimes you need to be burned to the core of your being

to uncover the essence of your soul.

Unburnt was born from that moment.

A digital sanctuary for those who’ve walked through betrayal, burnout, or quiet suffering —

and are now ready to reclaim themselves.

It’s not a campaign.

It’s not a brand.

It’s a space I created so I could be honest — and offer that honesty to others who are done pretending.

Ashlight

Your private support assistant for navigating workplace stress, burnout, and toxic dynamics in South Africa.

Built to protect your dignity, your data, and your spirit.

Deep Reflections of an Unburnt Soul - COMING SOON

Personal writings from the fire — and the after.

These are not teachings.

They are lived truths, quiet observations, and soul learnings I offer in case they meet you where you are.

Offered gently, for anyone beginning to see that surviving was never the end of the story.

My Memoir – Not In His Cards - COMING SOON

A personal story of love, loss, cultural constraint, and coming home to myself.

Offered here — slowly, truthfully — because healing deserves a space of its own.

Because I needed a place where I didn’t have to be strategic, performative, or palatable.

I needed a place to be true.

And now, I offer that place to others.

To those who’ve survived systems that never saw them.

To those ready to come back to themselves — gently, powerfully, quietly.

This isn’t therapy. It’s not a business funnel.

It’s a soul-led offering. A soft resistance. A quiet reclamation.

Rest. Read. Use Ashlight.

Follow the memoir.

Reach out if something in you says it’s time.

You don’t have to explain why you’re here.

You already are.

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