I once worked with a client I'll call Sarah. She had spent years searching for spiritual truth—first in organized religion, then in self-help books, then with a series of leaders who promised answers but left her feeling more disconnected than before.
By the time Sarah sat down across from me, she wasn't looking for someone to predict her future. She was exhausted, skeptical, and quietly desperate for one thing: clarity about what she actually believed—and how to live it in a world that felt increasingly chaotic.
Her story isn't unusual at all. That's why I'm writing this now.
The Two Faces of Tarot
When most people think of Tarot, a few common reactions come to mind.
On one hand, Tarot is treated as something fun and light—a party trick, a novelty, a way to pass time at a festival. On the other side, it's portrayed as something scary or dangerous: a gateway to dark forces, a tool for fortune-tellers who peer into your private life and pronounce doom.
And then there's the cynicism. Plenty of people immediately jump to scams and charlatans, and honestly? I can't blame them. The spiritual wellness industry is flooded with pseudoscientific nonsense, fear-based sales tactics, and people who confuse magical thinking with genuine transformation.
But for those of us "in the know"—those who have actually studied the origins of Tarot and use it daily as a tool for self-reflection and empowerment—our minds go somewhere else entirely.
We go straight to spiritual health.
What is Spiritual Health?
Let's back up. Before we can talk about embodied spirituality, we need to define spiritual health—because it's the most overlooked pillar of holistic well-being within the respectable corners of the health industry.
Physical health is about your body. Emotional and mental health are about your feelings and thoughts. But spiritual health?
Whenever we try to talk about spirituality, common definitions suggest that it's something to do with organized religion. So those who don’t “fit the mold” or haven’t experienced the spiritual benefits that those religions claim to offer will inevitably find themselves walking away and feeling isolated or insisting on a lifestyle devoid of spirituality altogether. The exact opposite of what they need for spiritual well-being.
Thankfully, language and how we use it informs the dictionary definitions and not the other way around. Those of us within the religious, spiritual, and mental health fields are aware that spirituality isn’t the same as religion. And suggesting that all things spiritual must be tied to a religion is absurd, at best. So I propose a better working definition:
“Spirituality is any regularly repeated practice, path, or exploration that provides or seeks to provide a person with a sense of purpose, connection, and meaning beyond their individual existence. Such purpose and connections may be to a community, nature, or a higher power.
"A spiritual lifestyle is one that involves rational sense-making of what might not be otherwise understood through scientific means through processes of self-exploration to uncover and ethically align one’s thoughts, feelings, and actions with their values.”
Spiritual health, then, is about meaning, purpose, connection, and values. It's the internal compass that answers questions like:
- Why am I here?
- What do I truly care about?
- How do I want to show up in the world?
- What do I do when life feels meaningless or overwhelming?
Spiritual health isn't about belonging to a religion, and it's not about believing in anything supernatural. It's about having a solid, stable inner life—a sense of groundedness that helps you navigate uncertainty, loss, joy, and everything in between.
And it doesn't exist in a vacuum—spiritual health directly affects how we manage physical illness, adhere to treatment, and even respond to placebo effects. When spiritual health is neglected or disrupted, you feel it. You feel untethered. Anxious. Reactive. Like you're just going through the motions without any real direction.
What It Actually Means to Embody Spirituality
Here's where the "embodied" part comes in—and where I part ways with a lot of what passes for spiritual advice online.
Embodied spirituality is not about visualizing your way to a better life. It's not about manifesting wealth while ignoring your actual circumstances. It's not about pretending negative emotions don't exist or chanting away real-world problems. And it’s certainly not about discrediting evidence-based medical and psychological treatments.
Embodied spirituality means your spiritual beliefs live in your body, your choices, and your daily actions. It's not something you think—it's something you do.
When you embody your spirituality:
- Your values show up in how you speak to a difficult coworker or neighbor and the way you show up for loved ones.
- Your sense of purpose informs how you spend your Sunday afternoon and “free time”.
- Your connection to something larger than just yourself helps you breathe through panic rather than dissociating from it.
This is the opposite of pseudoscience. It's grounded, practical, and measurable by the only metric that matters: Are you living more authentically now than you were a month ago?
How Tarot Contributes to Spiritual Health
So where does Tarot fit in?
Tarot isn’t a divination device that reveals an unchangeable future. I've said it before, and I'll keep saying it: We aren't divining our fate. We're seeking clarity about what matters most right now and what we can do about it.
Here's how Tarot, used authentically, can support spiritual health:
- Externalizes inner noise – When your mind is spinning with "what ifs" and competing desires, pulling cards forces you to slow down and look at one question or theme at a time. The images on the cards act as a mirror, reflecting back what you already know, but haven't been able to articulate.
- Creates a practice of self-inquiry – A good Tarot reading doesn't give you answers—it gives you better questions. Why did that card make you uncomfortable? What would it look like to embody the energy of this card tomorrow morning? How can you use the insights of the reading to make necessary changes in your life starting now?
- Bridges the spiritual and the practical – Tarot doesn't ask you to abandon critical thinking. In fact, the best readings actively engage it. You can be deeply spiritual and rigorously rational. Tarot honors both. (And the best readers come with real-world knowledge and experience to help you tap into it.)
I've often written on the Messages in the Moonlight website about the importance of accurate, quality information in spiritual practice. The same standard applies here: Tarot is a tool, not a crutch. It works best when you bring your full, skeptical, curious self to the table.
An Accessible Tool for Ongoing Support
Tarot is a long-standing spiritual tool that touches all of the intersections we've been discussing—physical health, mental health, relationships, and purpose. You don't need special powers to use it. You don't need to believe anything you don't already believe. You just need a willingness to sit with yourself and ask honest questions.
Unlike therapy (which is essential but can be expensive and hard to access) or spiritual direction (which often comes with religious frameworks), Tarot is something you can do on your own, any time, with nothing more than a deck and a few minutes of quiet.
That doesn't mean you shouldn't work with a skilled reader. You absolutely should—especially when you're stuck, overwhelmed, or navigating a major life transition. A good reader offers perspective you can't get from your own echo chamber.
Tarot Readers as Spiritual Leaders
This brings me to an idea I've been sitting with for a while: Authentic, well-trained Tarot readers are spiritual leaders.
Not gurus. Not infallible oracles. Not people who have all the answers.
But spiritual leaders in the truest sense—people who help others connect with their own inner authority, who provide safe containers for exploration, who model what it looks like to navigate uncertainty with integrity.
In a world where "spiritual leaders" too often become cults of personality, Tarot readers have an opportunity to do something different. We can be guides who point back to you. Your wisdom. Your empowerment. Your choices.
That's the kind of Tarot reader I strive to be. And it's the kind of spiritual leadership I believe we need more of.
Whether with a reader or alone, the ultimate goal is always the same: to help you embody your spirituality so thoroughly that you eventually need the cards less, not more. Because the real magic was never in the cards. It was in you, learning to trust your own grounded, embodied, imperfect wisdom.
Ready to Experience Embodied Tarot?
If this resonates with you—if you're tired of spiritual fluff and ready for a grounded, practical, transformative approach—I invite you to book a session with me.
We'll use Tarot not to predict your future, but to clarify your present. We'll focus on what's actually in your control. And you'll leave with actionable insights you can embody right away.
👉 Book Your Embodied Tarot Session Here
In Light & Love, Evylyn
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