Addiction Conversations for Couples: Set it Up for Success

Addiction, from alcohol to gambling, can disrupt relationships. It makes us not able to be fully present and therefore not connect. The relationship might get stunted or stuck here and not develop as it could. It might not live up to the promise it had. This guide looks at addiction through the lens of alcohol, giving a nod to the less common addictions, because the addictive process has some patterns.

How do we assess ourselves? Is it necessary to define it as addiction versus "I have a problem when I drink."

How do we talk about the support needed for both of us?

Let's work together- it is us against the issue.

You and I are not adversaries, we are on the same team. We both want what is best for us.

Let's not reinvent the wheel- use a counselor, the 12 steps, self help- anything that serves us.

(approximately 40 pages)