Before You Read My Book… Before you turn the first page, I want to ask you for one thing: Come as you are. You don’t have to be healed. You don’t have to have all the answers. You don’t have to know exactly what you are looking for. Just come with a...

What “Becoming Whole” Really Means For a long time, we are taught to believe that being whole means having everything figured out. A successful career. A happy relationship. A beautiful family. Financial stability. A life that looks complete from th...

A Letter to the Woman Who Needs This Book Dear Woman, I don’t know where you are in your life right now. Maybe you’re in love. Maybe you’re confused. Maybe you’re waiting for someone to finally give you the clarity you’ve been asking for. Maybe you’...

Things I Learned While Writing This Book I thought I was writing this book to share what I had learned about love. Somehow, the book ended up teaching me more than I expected. Writing EQUILIBRIUM made me realize that sometimes, the lessons we think ...

What I Want Every Woman to Feel After Reading This I don’t want you to finish this book believing that you have finally figured out love. I want you to finish it knowing that you have finally understood yourself a little more. I want you to feel lig...

The Chapter That Was Hardest to Write There was a chapter in this book that took me longer to write than the others. Not because I didn’t know what to say. But because I knew exactly what I wanted to say. Some words are easy to write when they are o...

What Inspired These Words Every book begins with words. But before the words, there is usually a feeling. For EQUILIBRIUM, the feelings came first. The questions. The uncertainty. The moments of silence. The things we wanted to say but couldn’t. Th...

The Story Behind the Title: EQUILIBRIUM Some titles are simply chosen. Others find you. EQUILIBRIUM was one of those titles. I wanted a word that could describe the kind of balance we spend so much of our lives trying to find—not just balance betwee...

I didn’t write this book because I had all the answers. I wrote it because I had questions. Questions about love. About waiting. About letting go. About why we sometimes hold on to people, situations, and feelings even when they no longer give us pe...

The Meaning Behind the Cover Before a reader opens a book, they see its cover. For EQUILIBRIUM, I wanted the cover to feel like the book itself. Quiet. Elegant. Feminine. Reflective. But with something deeper underneath. I didn’t want the cover to t...