This is an extension to an essay I published, Men, We Are the Problem - and the Solution. That piece was about the heteronormative narrative and the survival template men are made to live inside. This one adds the sexual nuance. Most men, whether th...

To be liberated is to acknowledge not just what you’ve experienced in life, but the role you’ve played in the experience, and your commitment to showing up differently.  I often don't talk about my friendships, relationships, or family history ...

People assume that being extremely particular about connection means I'm chasing perfection. For you astrology girlies and fellas, I’m a Virgo, Taurus, and Aquarius. For you Human Design enthusiasts, I’m a Manifestor. For you MBTI folks, I’m an INFP...

There’s a kind of grief moving through a lot of people right now that doesn’t get called grief. We’ve been trained to reserve that word for death or for the obvious losses. When it shows up in its overlooked forms, we reach for panic-primed language...

I’ve spent the better part of a day just trying to save a recording for my YouTube Channel. Half of it saves; the other half won’t. I switched apps, and the new one tells me my storage is conveniently low, right at the moment I have something to say...

We are not as socially or technologically advanced as we think. We’re actually conveniently policed in our collective grief-avoidance. The bar for what counts as advancement consistently gets lowered to whatever the current dysregulated, unintegrate...

This article was sparked by recent conversations circulating on social media around digital justice and algorithm culture. These conversations were informed by the work of scholars like Safiya Umoja Noble, whose groundbreaking research on algorithmi...

I want to riff on a couple of things: the movie The Purge and the evolution of how we’re connecting with each other, the role we play in shifting the narrative, and the tendency to repeat the old one.  I’m referencing The Purge because it’s a psycho...

There’s an obvious split in our collective consciousness right now. Those who are loyal to the social survival script. Those who are actively challenging the script. And those who are functionally frozen between the extremes. But we’re all existing ...

Perception is the core of how we exist. We can see things without noticing them. We can hear things, but we don't truly listen. We can feel things and choose to ignore them. Why? Because we don’t see our perception of things. Our perception of ...

I journal a lot. If I’m really feeling bogged down, I usually put pen to paper—very honestly—what I’m feeling and allow real, honest questions to rise. Then observe my terrain and patterns to see if any answers emerge. The answers usually become par...

All of these social platforms are ethically compromised. The bottom line is always the bottom dollar. Your role as a digital consumer and/or creator is to support the space(s) that make the most sense (cents) for you. Everyone’s mindset isn’t the sa...

I’ve been contemplating sharing this for a while, and I finally felt the green light to lay it all out here. Get comfortable because much of what I’m about to say is uncomfortable, but also a call to action. Not as some urgent sales tactic. But a ca...

You probably sense that a shift has happened in the air, but can’t quite put your finger on it. You have ideas floating around, but they don’t feel embodied. This is often what an internal reset feels like. Under the current societal conditions, th...

When people talk about social revolution, they often imagine a leader, a savior, or someone exceptional enough to shift the entire collective consciousness. But real change has never actually worked that way. What transforms a system isn’t a single...