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Do You Crave Connection But Also Push People Away?


Disorganized attachment often creates a painful push-pull dynamic in relationships. You may long for love and closeness, yet feel overwhelmed, mistrustful, or unsafe when others get too close. These conflicting emotions can stem from early experiences of inconsistent care or trauma—and while the patterns can feel confusing and chaotic, healing is absolutely possible.


Do you relate to any of the following?


  • Do you fear abandonment but also feel uncomfortable with closeness?
  • Do you alternate between clinging to people and shutting down emotionally?
  • Are your relationships often filled with anxiety, mistrust, or emotional highs and lows?
  • Do you have a hard time regulating your emotions in response to others’ actions?
  • Are you ready to break these patterns and learn how to feel safer in love and connection?

 

If so, Disorganized Attachment Style Worksheets offer a gentle, trauma-informed path to understanding your emotions, building self-trust, and creating more secure relationships—inside and out.


(+15 pages of evidence based exercises and techniques)


What’s Included?


  • Self-Assessment
  • The Push-Pull Pattern in My Relationships
  • Recognizing the Mixed Signals I Send and Receive
  • Building Trust Without Losing Myself
  • Journaling Boundaries I Avoid Setting
  • Grounding When My Nervous System Feels Unsafe
  • Managing the Fear of Abandonment Without Overreacting
  • What a Secure Relationship Feels Like


How These Worksheets Can Help

 

  • Help you identify and name the core fears and emotional conflicts that drive your attachment style
  • Support emotional regulation and grounding during moments of relationship distress
  • Offer journaling prompts and reflection tools to explore early attachment wounds
  • Guide you through exercises to build trust, consistency, and inner safety
  • Teach you how to tolerate closeness and navigate emotional intimacy more confidently
  • Strengthen your ability to communicate needs, set boundaries, and self-soothe in real-time

 

Download your Disorganized Attachment Style Worksheets today and begin healing the fear-chaos cycle that keeps you stuck. You are capable of building love that feels safe, calm, and deeply connected—these tools can help guide the way.

You will get a PDF (438KB) file

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“I’ve been facilitating mental health groups for 10 years and I’ve never come across worksheets as good as yours [including Therapy Aid].

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– Gary

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“I am so grateful to you. I was somewhat apprehensive about facing certain things that I knew were there but had been resisting addressing. Your approach in the worksheets made it easier, more structured, and less daunting to confront… I am beginning to understand myself better and striving to be a better partner, coach and psychologist.”

– Rocio

Hi there, my name is Hadiah.

I am a counselor and the author behind Ineffable Living blog – a codependency and mental health blog.


I wanted the worksheets to be both informative and engaging, so I worked on creating clear and concise instructions, thought-provoking prompts, and activities that would encourage self-reflection.


As I witnessed the positive impact these worksheets had on my clients' progress, I realized their potential to reach a broader audience.


Whether you’re a therapist, a coach, or a counselor who is looking for tools to help your clients or simply someone who is seeking personal growth, coping strategies, or ways to enhance your overall well-being, our worksheets are here to assist you.

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