Say Anything to Anyone - Anywhere
Most of our problems in life come from the fact that we either agree
to too much or we refuse things that we later repent. Though we may
be highly educated, there is one department that most of us are
lacking in… that of saying yes or no at the right place.
This e-Book delves into that collective shortcoming of the human
race. If you think about it, this is quite apt. When we talk about saying
anything to anyone anywhere, we are basically dabbling about the two
extremities—yes and no. Either you are agreeable to what you are
told, or you are not. But, it is saying it out aloud that matters.
Sometimes when you agree to too much, you might find too many
things on your platter and though you have the talent to do an expert
job of it, the shortage of time could be your downfall. You find that
you are not able to do justice to everything that you have taken up. As
a result, you lose your credibility, and people lose faith in you.
Though you are an expert, your downfall was that you took up too
many things. Naturally, you had to make a short shrift of things and
everything did not work out as you had planned.
The other extremity could be a problem. There are some people who
refuse almost anything. They have paranoia about accepting
anything. Refusal is their default reaction. This could be their
undoing though, because by unthinkingly refusing everything that
comes in their way, they are probably losing out on a lot of
Table Of Contents
Why We Say Yes When We Want to Say No
When to Say Yes
When to Say No
The Dangers of Saying Yes Too Much
The Pitfalls of Saying No Too Much
Striking the Balance between Saying Yes and Saying No
Ensuring You Do Not Come Across as Too Desperate
Ensuring There Are No Hurt Feelings